Okay, I am having the same issue as the original post thought I haven't been able to determine that anything is connecting at all. I'm attempting to connect through my LAN and I've even turned the firewall off the computer that is running the server but to no avail. I'm using an actual server machine running Windows server 2008 so I can't test from the machine itself, since the system only has an 8mb unsupported onboard video card without an agp or pci-e slot. When I start realmd.exe and mangosd.exe on the server computer it seems to start fine, and the mangosd window periodically updates queues, but when I attempt to connect to it from another computer on my network it says connecting for ten to fifteen seconds then shows an error message pointing me back to the Bliz forums for help. Any ideas on why I may not be able to connect to the server on my network?
BTW, I have updated the realmlist.wtf file to show "set realmlist 192.168.1.123" which is the static ip address for the server on my network and the realm is listed in the realmd tables with the same ip address.