Thank you Vladimir for pointing that out.
You are correct!
i do not understand all of it... as i said in my first post i am very new at this and any help or pointers.. would be appreciated
sinse i do not understand all of it, i tried to look at how it was done in twosided chat, then, as directed by you i treid to look at add friend and when i tried to use a similar fasion it would not compile correctly(i know this is an error on my part) So, i went back to the example that made sense to me and tried to use it again.. and, it did, some what.... at least it compiled...
still can't trade but i now know that it is a client issue and that i need to trick the client into believing we are same faction. i do not wnat to do this in a way that make the server see me or the other player as unfriendly to our own factions though so i will belooking in to it more as i have free time
thank you for trying to help me, i am sorry that i am so new at this and could not do what you thought i should have, but, i am trying to LEARN this