Thank you so much Antiroot and davemm,
You both were right..kinda...sorta.. lol
I some how...in my infinite wisdom made 2 mangos accounts on my SQL server ("mangos" and "Mangos")... and "mangos" had right to the database... but was only allowed to login locally... and "Mangos" didnt have rights to the databases, but could be used remotely... ugh
Maybe setting up servers late at night isnt always the best idea....
I now can launch the Mangos-realmd and Mangos-worldd and I can see them running in the terminals...
I created a user account, changed my realmlist.wtf to look at my LAN IP...(192.168.1.2 aka Prima)
When I connect to my server it takes the account name and password I setup...
In the realm list I see "MaNGOS" but when I try to join it says "Connecting..." then after about 5 seconds it kicks me back to the realm selection list... without a error.. I haven't ever played wow before...so I am not sure where the logs are....I am setting this server up as a gift for my girlfriend...pretty geeky eh?
Also just a question.... do I have the MySQL available port (3306) forwarded outside of my router to have others connect from outside? or just the wow default ports....